In the perfect sex scene, you and your partner are alone. The desire to burn is established, the clothes fall off, and you are passionate about doing it. All you can hear is the sultry atmosphere of Prince in the background. Unfortunately, this is not always the case (music is not the only thing you can hear). Some things can go wrong at any given moment. In fact, sex life is full of opportunities to gain the upper hand. So what can you do to get through the storm? Here are 10 things that can happen in a sexual act - and how to bounce off them.
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If you are a person in the middle of the inter-film action, your main player May act spontaneously to ecide to pause. Try not to sweat. The erection problem is more common than you think. According to the National Library of Medicine report, almost all adult males have problems with erection or erection at some point.
"Sometimes, stress can work," said board-certified urologist Michael Ingber. Doctor of Medicine "If this is the case, please relax as much as possible. Don't put too much pressure on yourself." He said, keep open with your partner. “Maybe restoring an erection may be a team effort.” Or arrange an appointment with a sex therapist. Dr. Ingber added that drugs such as antidepressants may also be the culprit. If you continue to pay attention, please consult your doctor.
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It is usually clear that women are "all systems go" sexy time. But vaginal drying can make things happen. "After menopause, the vaginal tissue loses estrogen and the vaginal mucosa (lining) becomes thinner," Dr. Ingber said. If this is the case, hormone cream or laser treatment may help. However, young women can also experience this, and the hormones in your birth control may put your vagina in a menopause state, he said. So what should you do? With your doctorDiscuss other non-hormonal contraceptive methods. “And use a lot of lubricants,” Dr. Ingber said. Choose a water based lubricant that does not contain any alcohol or glycerin. “Alcohol can feel 'soothing', but it will cause more irritation and dryness over time, and glycerol n can be used as a breeding ground for yeast and other bacteria,” he said.
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Whether you are in this period, or your man's penis Too much for you, vaginal bleeding may occur at the most inappropriate time. But it is especially frustrating when you or your partner's white bed suddenly looks like a crime scene. Dr. Kristie Overstreet, a proven sexual therapist, said: "This happens more often than you think." And often feels embarrassed or scared - especially if you are with a new partner. So what do you do? "If you feel uncomfortable when you bleed, please forgive yourself if you feel the need to clean up," she said. "But don't apologize too - because you haven't done anything wrong. If you handle it smoothly, chances are that your partner will do the same."
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There is nothing more to do with your partner's current enthusiasm, and then when you are in a compromise state, be beaten by your child/roommate/Betty Aunt/Bar Stranger Broken. If it is not impossible, it is difficult to rebound from this embarrassment. This is likely to mean the end of your date. So what is the best thing you can do? It depends on who caught you. Lifestyle and etiquette expert Elaine Swan offers some solutions in a female health interview: If you are a relative, please apologize and tell them that this will not happen again. If it is your roommate, please provide any shared furniture that may have been wiped out by your naked parts. If it's a bar patron (or someone else in a public place), think of it as a crazy story that you can laugh later.
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Flatulence may be a real emotional killer. However it happened. why? "Because of the increased blood flow to the genitals, the vaginal canal becomes congested, the uterus expands and tilts upwards, muscles are tense and relaxed," said licensed therapist Tonya McDaniel. This will create some gas in the colon and combine it with the placed sexual position. She said that applying pressure to your abdomen will increase your chances of ventilation. So how do you recover? "First of all, you should accept that this is normal," McDaniel said. "Next, you can admit and understand it, or ignore it and continue what you are doing." If you are really worried about farting during sex, "reduce the amount of carbonated drinks you consume [this will increase unnecessary digestive tract Air] and eat less, more frequent meals to help digestion," she said.
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Whether you accidentally flip the phone or mistakenly The phone is in your pocket, and the famous "docked dial" can disrupt the sex conversation. Especially if the lucky recipient of that phone is your mom or dad. What do you do when you recognize the familiar parent voice on the other end? “Your response may depend on your relationship with your parents,” said sexual therapist Dr. Kristie Overstreet. She said that you can then call or send a short apology or ignore it and pretend it didn't happen. “Remember, even your parents, you are an adult. Adults have sex. This is a natural and normal behavior.”
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When the passion between you and your partner ignites, how can you get rid of it? Maybe you have a crazy working day. Perhaps happy hour has become a sultry happiness for a few hours. Anyway, some days will make you disappear,So that any form of sexual activity (including verbal) will make you fall asleep.
So how do you recover? “First, apologize to your partner and assure you that your sleep behavior has nothing to do with them,” Dr. Overstreet said. "Let them know that you are exhausted, you feel relaxed and comfortable, it makes you fall asleep. Tell them that you like to have sex with them and be intimate, but you want to go again and how tired you are. Focus on you Body (relative to them). "
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Adob e Stock / Monkey Business 8. Condom slippageCondoms are three dirty Little things. Although they are necessary for the prevention of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and infants, they do not always remain the same. They can slip, break and get stuck in the vagina. Sex researcher Dr. Debby Herbenick told BuzzFeed, "If you wear a condom and roll it up, it looks too tight or broken, maybe you need a bigger condom. If the condom has been slipping or looks very spacious, you may need Smaller. "
According to the 2012 study of the Institute of Gender, Gender and Reproduction of the Indiana University of Kinsey, it is quite common to actually experience condom accidents. They came to the territory. If you need a backup, be sure to carry a few condoms with you.
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Adob e Stock / LIGHTFIELD STUDIOS 9. Give your partner a wrong nameSay you have sex with Jason, but You accidentally called him "Josh." Of course, he may be confused and may even be offended. He can even stop acting and ask who this "Josh" person is. You can say that your thoughts are a million miles away, and you just blurt out a random name. Or you can say that this is an honest mistake, you don't know why you called him "Josh."
According to Dr. Jim Pfaus, D., a professor of neuroscience and psychology at Concordia University. You should not feel sorry for your rudeness, because this isDue to Pavlov's rules (ie sensory [involuntary] recall). "When you are in an excited state, you will think of something that reminds you of other things just because you are in a state that happened before," he said.
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Adob e Stock / Africa Studio 10. Minor injuriesLift your head. Knock on the knee. Leg cramps. The elbow is aiming. It sounds like a professional wrestling match is really just that you and your partner "do it." Sometimes "it" can lead to less sexy bumps, bruises and bruises. But when you are in trouble, you are not always worried about performing elegant movements - this means your body parts will be slightly hurt.
So what should you do to do this. Dr. Kristie Overstreet, a certified sexual therapist, said: "The best response is to laugh at it." When people have sex, these things happen. Don't be angry or react to your partner in a negative way. The accident happened, so let go, laugh, let's go. "
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Adob e Stock / silverkblack What do you think?Which of these things do you think is the most frustrating? You are Have you encountered any embarrassing things in your sexual behavior? How did you recover? Please let us know in the comments below!
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